The man behind the prophet
By Khaled Diab
Muhammad was one of the most influential figures in human history. But
who was the man behind the icon?
April 2008
A cask by losing centre-piece or cant
Was
never shattered so, as I saw one
Rent
from the chin to where one breaketh wind.
Between his legs were hanging
down his entrails;
His heart
was visible, and the dismal sack
That maketh excrement of what is eaten.
Who is this poor man who has just been chopped
in half and is quite literally wearing his guts for garters? And what precisely
has he done to deserve such a gruesome fate?
Well, this is not a scene out of the latest slasher film but describes
the eternal punishment dreamt up for Muhammad by Dante in his Divine Comedy. The
Muslim prophet was condemned by this Italian poet to the ninth bolgia (ditch) of the eighth circle of hell, reserved for
“disseminators of scandal and of schism”.
Compare Dante’s words with those of the Sufi
scholar Shah Abdul Lateef Bhitai:
Oh Moon, never mind if
I tell you the truth
Sometimes you are dim
Sometimes you are bright
Still, your brightness is not equal
To an atom of the dust
From the foot of Muhammad
Traditionally, Muhammad has represented two
polar extremes: unimpeachable good for Muslims and unadulterated evil for
Christians. Of course, his name no longer provokes the kind of terror it once
did in medieval
On the other side of the fence, it is
surprising how, nearly a millennium and a half after his death, so many Muslims
find it hard to step back and take a clearer-eyed and more critical view of
him. After all, even if you do believe in the divinity of Islam, one of its
main messages was that Muhammad was a messenger and it was the message, not the
man, that counted. He was fond of saying: “I am a man
like you. I eat food like you and I also sit down when I am tired like you.”
So, between this demonisation
and exaltation, where exactly does the historical Muhammad lie? Who precisely
was he? What made him tick and how exactly did he rise to global and timeless
prominence?
Muhammad, whose name means ‘Praiseworthy’, was
born in
Despite the wealth of the Quraysh,
Muhammad grew up in relative want and loneliness after being orphaned at a very
young age. He was to suffer further heartbreak when his beautiful cousin, Fakhita, with whom he was
passionately in love, married another man before the shy and sensitive prophet-to-be
could pluck up the courage to ask for her hand.
Realising how important wealth was in
His growing reputation brought him to the
attention of Khadijah,
‘Ameerat Quraysh’ (the
Princess of Quraysh),
There was more to Muhammad than his
money-spinning acumen and Khadijah was so impressed
by his honesty, humility and modesty that she bucked convention and her own
determination not to remarry a third time and proposed marriage to the
25-year-old who was 14 years her junior.
Bucking convention himself, Muhammad agreed to
the match. His undying love for Khadija, his refusal
to marry any other woman until her death despite the conventions of the age,
his willingness all his life to carry out domestic chores (conveniently ignored
by generations of scholars!) and her pivotal role in the early development of
Islam (she was the world’s first Muslim) are used by Muslim feminists to argue
that Islam is woman-friendly and that, if Muhammad were here today, he would be
a true metrosexual.
However, detractors compare the status of women
and slaves in Islam with modern standards, forgetting that Islam seriously
improved their situation, and made men and women equal before God. Such
comparisons are unfair, since it would also compel us to condemn
Life is said to begin at 40, and it certainly
did for Muhammad. But rather than invest in a Porsche or even a 16-cylinder
camel, Muhammad set about to found a new world religion. Disaffected by the
socio-economic injustices and conflict around him and the hollowness of Mecca’s
materialistic cults, Muhammad began to meditate but was so distressed by his
first ‘revelation’ that it required the rock of Khadija,
who believed implicitly in her man, for him to build up the confidence to begin
preaching the new faith.
In retrospect, there were early signs in his
behaviour of what was to come. For instance, in his 20s, Muhammad was
instrumental in forming a short-lived chivalric association called the “Lovers
of Justice” which was established to help a foreign merchant cheated out of his
money by a dishonest member of the Quraysh. This
pan-clan brotherhood demonstrated to the young Muhammad the benefits of moving
beyond tribal loyalties and focusing on common humanity.
I personally don’t believe Muhammad’s
revelations were divine, nor those of any other prophet or religion for that
matter. But that’s not to say he didn’t believe it, seized as he was by
mysterious fits. There is a case to be made for the idea that successful
prophets could only make it through unwavering conviction that their unconscious
is actually a channel to God. To my mind, this lack of divine intervention
makes his achievements all the more remarkable.
Modern historians largely agree that Muhammad “was absolutely sincere and acted in
complete good faith”.
Would someone who did not truly believe in his message expose himself to the
total ridicule and mortal danger which his mission attracted in its early
years?
With the odds stacked against his nascent
community of believers, Muhammad was dealt a near-mortal blow by the loss of
his beloved Khadija in what became known as the Year
of Sorrow. Some historians have suggested this may have partly motivated his
decision to flee
And I wonder whether the status of Muslim women
might not have been very different if Khadija had
outlived her husband? Perhaps if he’d lived to a ripe old monogamous age, he
would’ve exerted more effort to end male-only polygyny
rather than limiting it or, at the very least, future generations may have
followed his example as they do on other issues?
After a quarter of a century of faithful
monogamy, he embraced polygamy with passion, perhaps in a futile quest to find
another Khadija or to find solace for his lonely
heart. Interestingly, the Quran conveniently gave him
licence to take as many wives and concubines as he liked.
Some of Muhammad’s post-Khadija relationships have elicited the most controversy
among non-Muslims, such as his marriage to underage Aisha,
and been the most difficult to rationalise by Muslims who prefer to ignore
those aspects of his behaviour which conflict with their modern standards. This is one of the biggest issues
facing Muslims today, since so much of Islamic jurisprudence is based on
Muhammad's sayings and actions. The question is which of those actions should
be interpreted as guidance for all time, and which relate specifically to
circumstances in
Muhammad’s time in
However, it is also in this post-Khadija, post-Mecca era that much of the controversy
surrounding his life is focused. It is
in
Accused of outright treachery by Muhammad, the Banu Qurayza were to suffer the most of all the Jewish
tribes. One of the prophet’s biographers states that Muhammad approved the
beheading of up to 900 members of the tribe, while the women and children were
sold into slavery. In the contemporary west, this has elicited some accusations
of anti-Semitism.
John Esposito, professor of Islamic studies at Gerogetown University, argues that Muhammad’s motivation
was political – the Jewish tribes were rich, influential and well-armed –
rather than racial, since they were all Arabic-speaking Semites, or
theological. In addition, Norman Stillman, chair of Judaic History at
Moreover,
in his treatment of the Jews of Medina, Muhammad broke his own principles and
brought himself into conflict with the Quran’s
exaltation of the ‘People of the Book’. And thanks to this, the treatment of
Jews and Christians in the Muslim world was generally better than
Upon
his triumphant return to
Muhammad
died after unifying
For
centuries, Muhammad inspired the Muslim world to thrive economically,
scientifically, culturally and artistically. However, nearly 1,400 years on,
the presumed divine providence of his philosophy, among myriad other
socio-economic and political factors, is acting as an anchor slowing the
development of many Muslim countries.
This column appeared
in The Guardian Unlimited’s Comment is Free section on 13
March 2008. Read the related
discussion.
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