Arabs and Israelis held hostage by a common enemy

Khaled Diab

Salom Now! And METalks are two experimental initiatives which sought to rewrite the script of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict and give ordinary people a starring role in the quest for peace. Those involved experienced profound changes to their outlook and took the first steps towards forging a new, more inclusive narrative for the Middle East. However, such popular, grassroots action is held hostage by some common enemies: despair, hatred, antipathy and distrust.

 

February 2007

Part I – War and elusive peace

Part II – Talking under fire

Part III – Dangerous liaisons

Part IV – Constructive ideas

Part V – Let’s talk about you and ME

Part VI – Terrorised by a common enemy

Part VII – Existential angst

Part VIII – Moving forward

 

Let’s talk about you and ME

Motivated by the conflict in Lebanon, Anat el-Hashahar says she established METalks.com to help Arabs and Israelis to humanise each other and better understand the way the other side thinks through dialogue and debate.

 

“I was born back when Israel had peace with no Arab country. We grew up dreaming of peace with our neighbours,” she confesses. “We have achieved that with Egypt and Jordan. The very thought of maybe, just maybe, reaching a state of peace with all neighbouring countries sends shivers down my spine, for real.”

 

Those who took the leap of faith and made the time to engage in this experiment learned a lot about the socio-political situation on the ‘other side’ and made new contacts, myself included. I spent too many hours burning the late night oil, pondering and debating complex questions with the others, soul-searching, wracking my brains, holding back my temper, hoping, despairing, distressing, aspiring.

 

There were interesting and intelligent debates over Jewish and Arab identity, Palestinian nationhood, the one-state solution, opinions over the role of the Israeli military, Israel’s so-called ‘deterrent posture’, and much more.

 

Sadly, some debates revealed the worst forms of bigotry on both sides of the conflict – and too much energy was wasted arguing about the mythical ‘Protocols of the Elders of Zion’ and the hugely exaggerated threat posed by Islamic extremism.

 

Members were also encouraged to socialise and get to know one another on a personal level. “I almost think that the social forum here may, in fact, be most important of all, if and when there are many people on both sides of the conflict talking silly and exchanging jokes and personal trivia,” believes Werbeloff.

 

Unfortunately, the forum ground to a halt weeks after the fighting in Lebanon ended. Faced as it was with few new members arriving, growing recrimination and the constant, depressing daily attrition on the ground, the dialogue simply lost steam.

 

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Further reading

Read the Salom Now! draft manifesto

 

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Salom now!

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Peace is so important to Arabs and Israelis that they use it to greet friends and strangers a like – ‘salam’/’shalom’, they say. Despite this, the Middle East appears to be increasingly falling prey to new conflicts. Perhaps the oldest and most intractable of these is the Arab-Israeli conflict, particularly its Israeli-Palestinian component. Read on

 

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Salom now!

Mobilising the untapped power of Arab and Israeli peaceniks

August 2006 – Arabs and Israelis have a common way of greeting people and it is to wish them ‘peace’. As advocates of violent solutions chalk up another victory in the Middle East and the international community fails the test again in Lebanon and Gaza, the time has come for Arab and Israeli citizens to join forces in a broad-based regional coalition to work towards salam/shalom… now.

Part I – Silent world

Part II – Peace begins at home

 

Crisis in Lebanon and Gaza

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Dressed to kill –

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Commission wants closer EU-Israeli ties

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