No defeating hate

 

Marina Werbeloff* reacts to the article entitled ‘Arabs and Israelis held hostage by a common enemy’.

 

February 2007

 

I have read your article about our ill-fated forum and have to agree, sadly, that despair was a large part of its failure. Despair, exasperation, a keen awareness of the dead-end looming ahead, and, well, probably simple battle fatigue.  I, for one, got tired of being put in a position where I had to debunk the most absurd, basest, old-world hate myths (the
Protocols, holocaust denial, you name it!), seriously discussed as scientific facts, or at least good working theories, by a couple of contributors to the forum. I truly appreciated
your valiant efforts to bring them back to the land of reason, but I also saw that reason never really got an upper hand in our dialogue.

 

Just now I was reading the blogs of an Israeli and a Jordanian who jointly taught some kind of ‘peace journalism’ seminar in Sweden. An anonymous reader in the latter’s comments section said, “Just who gave you the authority to reach out to the Zionist sector in our name?” So many people simply don’t want peace, choosing hatred and all the
misery associated with it instead. Hatred must be a really powerful drug, indeed; I don’t think I will ever find any words that can compete with it.

I admire your optimism and resilience and envy it a little. However, I’m sorry to say that I find it hard to share it. I have learned from METalks that those who keep an open mind, may, on occasion, adjust their views, but those who do not, won’t. And, since it’s that latter group that needs adjustment the most, I suppose one can say that the experiment simply didn’t work. If one wants to press on, one has to find a different paradigm. I hope you find it! 

 

Marina Werbeloff is an Israeli citizen based in the United States.

 

 

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Further reading

Read the Salom Now! draft manifesto

 

Madrid II: towards a civil peace in the Middle East

November 2006 – Prompted by the dire situation in Gaza, Spain, France and Italy have floated an unexpected Middle East peace drive. This initiative will almost certainly join other similar aborted road maps and peace plans slowly decaying in the graveyard of international diplomacy. What the EU needs to do is to abandon the deadlocked political level and organise a high-profile Madrid II conference targeted at civil society to set in motion a ‘people’s peace process’. Read on

 

How I learned to start worrying and hate the bomb

November 2006 – With North Korea’s recent nuclear test and Iran’s suspected nuclear designs, Khaled Diab explains why he learned to start worrying and hate the bomb and suggests how the proliferation of nuclear weapons can best be arrested – and reversed. Read on

Give ‘salom’ a chance

September 2006 – The best lessons to draw from Lebanon and Gaza are that all sides lost the battle and the only way for everyone to win the war is through peaceful means. Politicians have shown a lack of imagination and willpower and so it is up to ordinary Arabs and Israelis to lead them down the path to salam/shalom (peace). It is high time to demand Salom Now! Read on

 

Salom now!

Reaching out for a people’s peace in the Middle East

Peace is so important to Arabs and Israelis that they use it to greet friends and strangers a like – ‘salam’/’shalom’, they say. Despite this, the Middle East appears to be increasingly falling prey to new conflicts. Perhaps the oldest and most intractable of these is the Arab-Israeli conflict, particularly its Israeli-Palestinian component. Read on

 

Using a carrot and stick for peace

September 2006 – Given the fragile situation in Lebanon, the pledge by EU member states to provide troops to police the UN-backed ceasefire was well-timed. However, to avoid a fresh crisis from erupting, Europe will have to aid efforts to forge lasting peace in the Middle East. Read on

 

Salom now!

Mobilising the untapped power of Arab and Israeli peaceniks

August 2006 – Arabs and Israelis have a common way of greeting people and it is to wish them ‘peace’. As advocates of violent solutions chalk up another victory in the Middle East and the international community fails the test again in Lebanon and Gaza, the time has come for Arab and Israeli citizens to join forces in a broad-based regional coalition to work towards salam/shalom… now.

Part I – Silent world

Part II – Peace begins at home

 

Crisis in Lebanon and Gaza

From complete failure to comprehensive solutions

July 2006 – Israel’s massive onslaught against Lebanon – and before that Gaza – reveals a monumental failure on the part of the international community to prevent an avoidable tragedy. Now it is up to the European Union to avoid a replay of 1982 and revive the idea of a comprehensive solution to the Arab-Israeli conflict. Read on

 
The EU’s new Palestine dilemma

February 2006 – It may be better for the EU to provide more carrots and fewer sticks for Hamas, writes Khaled Diab. Read on

 

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Under the cloak of Bush’s foreign policy

December 2005 – Jeff Sommers, Khaled Diab and Charles Woolfson expose what lies beneath the cloak of US President George W Bush’s foreign policy. Read on

 

Time to rethink the EU’s role in the Middle East

January 2005 – If Yasser Arafat’s death is to signify anything more than the symbolic start of a new era, the European Union must radically rethink its role as a mediator in the Israeli-Palestinian conflict to persuade the two peoples to work towards a new dawn. Read on

 

Commission wants closer EU-Israeli ties

January 2005 – The European Commission and the EU’s former envoy to the Middle East have both come out in favour of enhancing economic and political ties with Israel. But critics question the wisdom of extending a policy of good neighbourhood to a country that has done little to make the neighbourhood a safer place to live. Read on

 

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